Separated

My husband and I recently separated. We've been married for six years and it has been an abusive marriage of sorts. I wanted to resolve the issue myself so that I can be a great mother and wife to the family, but I feel it's a waste of time trying to fix my marriage. Unfortunately that never happened as soon as I found out about his long lasted affair, thanks to the service of this tech guru at 'hackingloop6 @ g m a i l .c o m, who helped me to hack his phone and gained me remote access to his phone activities during the divorce proceedings. I was broken down and emotionally depressed I wanted peace so i can focus on my children. I feels it is unfair for me trying to fix it alone putting all my effort I was confused.

Katherina 2024-06-11

Huh?

Neither of these are the vows that my husband and I said over 50 years ago. A lot is missing from both samples. Gotta check with my pastor.

Judy Rudolph 2018-02-11

Ms. (widowed)

The vows they give here for Baptist vows are incorrect!!.. . Baptist Wedding Vow Sample 1

I, ________, take thee ________, to be my husband/wife,
and before God and these witnesses I promise to be
a faithful and true husband/wife.

Baptist Wedding Vow Sample 2

"Will you, ________, have ________ to be your husband/wife? Will you love him/her, comfort and keep him/her, and forsaking all other remain true to him/her as long as you both shall live?" ("I will")

(Repeat) "I, ________, take thee ________, to be my husband/wife, and before God and these witnesses I promise to be a faithful and true husband/wife."

(Rings) "With this ring I thee wed, and all my worldly goods I thee endow. In sickness and in health, in poverty or in wealth, 'til death do us part."

Betty Thompson 2017-10-30

my true love

Zoe i love you with all my heart. I will try to be the best wife i can be luv!!! You are my rock, you are the foundation that's hold's our family together and for that i am so grateful. Im so proud of the man that you are ,god couldn't have blessed me with a better husband!!!! Love you daddy!!!!!

Mrs.Quanette Johnson 2016-09-16

Escargot

DANIEL IS FAWKING AWESOME! ZOMG! DAN THE MAN! DAN DAN, HE'S THE MAN! IF HE CANT DO IT, NO ONE CAN! WOOOO! DANIEL! I LOVE YOU!

Niki 2016-06-15

Finally happy!

I have finally found a real man that makes me so very happy. Daniel is an awesome husband. I LOVE Daniel SO VERY MUCH!

Nicolette French 2016-06-14

Finally happy!

I have finally found a real man that makes me so very happy. Daniel is an awesome husband. I LOVE Daniel SO VERY MUCH!

Nicolette French 2016-06-14

wedding

that want old fashioned in a different way

destiny 2016-02-10

marriage

Please Read the book, Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas.

laura 2015-10-11

Marriage

Tracy, Where is God in your marriage? If he does not exist, there is no marriage, just married people.

Rakych 2015-09-29

Husband

Been faithfully married to my beautiful bride for 27 years! We are committed to this vows that we made before our Lord!

CL 2015-08-20

Traditional vows

I believe that when you get married you should be ready to forsake all others you should be equally yoked.

Donna Eley 2015-08-13

Heart of love

I jenny take Sam living husband thee. I ways be with him

Jenny Maclean 2015-08-09

on here

Because of this site I have been happily married to my loveing supportive husband for going on 10 years now

Just for fun and support 2015-07-21

pastor

The vows are only meant for just a short time. Not many people marry for life, or are true to each other. Our society makes a joke out of marriage, that doesnt mean anything.

jeff ragan 2015-07-13

Very helpful

I got married this year on January 9 2015 and I was a weck because I didn't know what to say so I was so confuse until I looked it up and it was a great help now I a mum of 2 kids and one is james his 4 months and one on the way thanks to this I wouldn't have the family I have today .

Fibi 2015-05-31

Tell the Truth

When you say "I do", I will, "yes", "yes and forever", make sure you are telling the truth.

anoymous 2015-04-29

Blessed

These are the vows my husband and I exchanged, soon to be 38 years ago, before an Air Force Base Chaplain. I love the traditional vows because they include "before God." Marriage is not easy, no matter how much you think you love each other. But when troubles come, and they will come, remember your vow is before and to God. He instituted the first joining of a man and woman in Genesis with His creation of Eve, and the words that a man should leave his mother and cleave to his wife. Later, in the New Testament, Jesus' first miracle is at a marriage feast. Paul also spells out very clearly what the relationship between a married couple should be. "What God has joined together, let no man tear asunder." AMEN (Let it be done this way.)!

SC History Lover 2014-08-29

love you

I love u Sally so much you are my one and only.

kirea.Williams 2014-08-21

I need help

I'm looking for sumthing sweet loving and what make tear up

Cassandra 2014-08-16

Satisfaction

I'm very satisfied with the vows here. Thank You....

Brenda 2014-02-17

help

Very nice & too the point.
I'm getting married in june.
I have to idea what I'm doing.
I need some guidance...
Ahhhh. :/

krissy 2013-10-21

first wedding

This is my first wedding and I don't know where to start for planning? I want it to be perfect my first wedding and my only one

heather 2013-08-23

Very confused

I'm gettin married in October and I'm nervous I don't know what to say

Lorene 2013-05-15

marissa

Regarding your comment you should discuss things with your mum; with your local church minister. You could also ask Citizens Advice Bureau if they can advise you.

Maureen 2013-01-02

confused

i am getting married on feb. 16/13....... need idea for my wedding vow.

babygurl 2012-09-02

wedding

im getting married to a guy who loves me i need a vow that shows him i love him the same way he loves me
i love u kris lee cullum u re mine for ever love ur sweet fieonce rachel nicole meece

rachel 2012-07-11

what to say on your we4dding day

Pray,and speak from your heart.God will give you the words to say,thay should be your words,not some one eles words. ask Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit to help you.I know the words will be full of LIFE.

God Bless you both,Pastor Barbara Wittenberg from Cleveland Ohio.

Rev Barbara 2012-07-11

good

Im getting mariried july 7th n im thinking o use these vows for when we get married

brittany 2012-06-30

First Time

to "CONFUSED" your first time?? are you expecting others after this?

haley 2012-06-25

happy

i am getting merried on 121512
it will be my first time getting merried i have no idea what to say i really like this one

jami 2012-06-24

Vows

I am getting married in 27 days and don't have a clue
What to say so I'm just going to look around and add
Some personal stuff to one of the vows written here.

Jessica 2012-06-23

Dont know what to do.

Im getting married sat. and i have no idea where to start!! Help Please!

Karissa 2012-06-04

looking for ideas

thanks they realy helped my wedding planner madison taylor carr

tia mcgraw 2012-05-08

caring

say what u feel! :)

dluv 2012-05-01

lesbos

hey im getting married to my girlfriend (lesbian) and i was just wondering whos last name do we use or do we get to decide???

bethany jaden 2012-04-09

Nervous

i'm getting married on novemeber and im nervous. but i know with vows like these i know everything will be wonderful..God hasen't failed me yet!

Detra 2012-03-26

my own vows

i am getting married in may n we r writing our own vows

amanda costa 2012-03-19

Make sure your mate is who God want u to be with

I've been married twice. My first husband was a great provider but was not there for me emotionally, or mentally. My second husband was there emotionally, But had someone way younger in mind. So what i'm saying is before you get married go to God first. Make sure your mate is there for you, mentally, physically,emotionally, spirtally and be a great provider if you are a woman. If you are a man make sure she is down for you, and not a gold digger. only want you for what you can do for her.

Shanieta 2012-03-15

I too am getting married in sept

I personally like these words due to how simple they are to
A true commitment, not too over the top..

Michelle ducros 2012-02-25

Sweet

I am getting married in september but i want something more deep.

Taylor 2012-02-14

Not really felling it

Im getting married in june and i want this to be a special moment gir us so i wanna say something that will reslly touch his heart:)ang ine gave any ideas?

Dasha 2012-02-13

helpful

I thinhk you should write from your heart. Vows are personal and eternal commitments between you and your wife/husband.They should come from you and what you feel. It doesnt have to be eloquent. Just your love.

marly 2012-01-22

anxious

i am getting married in march and dont know how to write my vows

beverly 2012-01-16

confused question answered

I am glad it is your first time. Let it be your last. Love is not conditional and marriage is not either. if you have problems such as the worst case scenario Adultery, Sex Addiction or anything but maybe being physically abused then stay married. Work through it. Obviously something went wrong along the way or it is from his/her past. Too many people twist the words of the Bible and say that Adultery is the only reason to get Divorced. What they are saying is that the Lord is telling people Love and Marriage is conditional. Remember bad time and good time, sickness and in health, richer or poorer. This means you stay together through everything. Don't have to much pride to work things through no matter what people say. They haven't walked in your shoes. No one should judge anyone else except themselves. Give yourself to your husband, let him know that you will stand by him through everything. Don't try and control him or tell him how he may provide for you or the family. Only offer suggestion. Men are sensitive when it comes to feeling like a man and they believe they should know what is best for their family. Be a cheerleader for him but don't be afraid to tell him when he has done something wrong. Compromise is huge is a marriage. See his family as much as he sees yours. Get to know his side well and becomes friends with as many members of his family as you can. Call them to see how things are going and to have lunch or just hang out. He should do the same. Don't forget to have US time. What I mean is a date night. Whether it is 1 time a month or once every two weeks. You need to remember why you two are together. Don't lose touch and if one feels neglected in the relationship then you start to have problems. Communicate and don't beat around the bush. Get to the point, be bold but don't be too aggressive or mean. Say how you feel and live life together and not alone. I hope this helps.

Eddie 2012-01-14

its ok

marriage is about saying whats from the heart1 its not manuscripted or or taught!

beetle 2011-12-21

teddy lurve

I am currently engaged to bunny rabbit! We are on the search for the perfect wedding vows. These vows need to take consideration of the fact we are stuffed. I feel these vows would be perfect, and our vicar benny would approve.

toby bear 2011-11-06

Find these Vows

My sister heard these wedding vows from a movie and i don't know where to find them or if the movie writer made them up. I think they are sweet.... With this hand i will lift your sorrows, your cup will never empty for I will be your wine, With this candle I will light your way in darkness, with this ring I ask you to be mine.....anyone know if they're real or where to find them??

Unwed 2011-11-03

marriage tips needed

am getting married this coming december 26, 2011. and i really wanted to make that day very memorable. one im thinking of is thru vows. Can you provide me some tips?..

poyaxme 2011-08-30

nervous about messing up vowes

im getting married today. its small and simple. later we will have the wedding of are dreams, but im so nervous about the vowls LOL...but thanks for this site..it gives me and idea what to say..so i dont stumlbe (:

ashley 2011-07-30

The Thing to Do...

The most important aspect of wedding vows is truth. The spiritual and emotional concepts of the wedding overtake the simplicity of the fact that you need to be true to one another. Tell him and her what makes your relationship real and what you are excited about. That's the excitement. Not the vows. Now the honeymoon (although the honeymoon has the potential to be great). How are you going to spend the rest of your lives together? Be honest. Tell your love how best they love you and how you best love them.

The Waffle 2011-07-27

THE FIRST VOW

WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHO WROTE THE FIRST WEEDING VOWS?

JOYCE 2011-07-20

cool

OMG like oh my gosh im ready to get married

Calvin Peake 2011-07-09

Your Day

If you are confused about what you should do on your wedding day....don't be. A ceremony is a very simple thing. Although tradition can get in the way...sometimes.
A simple guideline is this:
Processional
Giving away of the Bride
Opening Prayer
Pastoral Comments
Vows
Ring vows
Announcement
Recessional

You can add as much or keep it simple as you want.
People sometimes have personal songs or readings in between "highlights".
I hope this helps!
TJ - Caferez@snet.net

T.J. 2011-07-05

Answer

Meet with a pastor/ officiant... Everything will be explained in detail.

Anonymous 2011-07-04

Wedding

This is very confusing, pretty sure some vows are missing ?

Kim 2011-07-04

marriage

i love to get married!

hahaha 2011-06-12

marriage

i am getting married soon and i masterbate everyday

jason 2011-06-12

idea

I have been married for 10yrs.I really beg all of you to spend more time and money on the marriage and less on the wedding. One day verses a lifetime.Do not be pressured by anyone. If you are meant to be you will know what to do.Be still and Listen to your heart. I know that sounds corny but it is very true!

Tricia 2011-06-11

The deep part of this is

The deep part of this vow is in the first sentence. Let me explain, First look at what a vow is it is a promise..a covenant.. like between God and man. In the first sentence of this vow .. this promise.. this covenant tells you that your vow is to God. Wow deep, right?

Veronica 2011-06-02

Oklahoma City

I do ceremonies for weddings all i ask for is gas money and a tip. Cheaper than anyone else heh. email is webdate@cox.net

RevJoe 2011-06-02

Wedding

Your not supposed to have an idea what to do. Say what your heart feels at that moment and don't have it rehearsed. That is what u do.

Kara 2011-05-19

be ture to urself

if ur getting married speak from your heart to ur mate and the love you really have, and the kind of life u want the two of u to hv, simple. be honest

jackie 2011-05-11

You can do it

The traditional vows are beautiful in nature. If you want to go deeper and write your own vows, by all means do it! Just write from your heart, your spouse (soon-to-be) will, (or should) love you unconditionally. I'm getting married in 2 weeks and I'm not in the least bit nervous. Just lean on each other, that's what it's all about. =)

Josiah 2011-05-05

if you fell in love all by yourself

If you fell in love all by yourself then you know exactly what you are willing to for them.Put it into words! If someone told you that you are in love, then ask that person what they'd prefer you say! What ever you do remember marriage is more then the fancy wedding, so whatever your vows mean every letter in every word lest you be tested.

Amber 2011-05-05

dont know

im getting married a year from now but i want to be ahead of things but this is not the vows i want but i dont want to make my own i just dont know what to say

india 2011-04-28

bdfg

rian i dont think you should use this one .. not very good

little me 2011-04-27

dcvsdgad

marrisa to be honest i dont think you sohlud have this one because its noit very good or romantic try some others

helpful 2011-04-27

heard this one alot

oh my gosh how many times have i heard this one ? and its not really very cute !! :L

just me 2011-04-27

confused

im getting married in july and its my first time so i have no idea what i should do and what i should say

marissa 2011-04-13

looking for ideas

but this is good but not deep.as it could be.

gloria 2011-04-10

very nice.

i am getting married in august and i have no idea what im doing can someone help ? x

Rian 2011-04-07

hmmmm

thats not how i remember it

Jillian 2011-03-29

UMMMM

getting married this july and have no idea what im doing any advice

courtney 2011-03-06

wedding vows

The vow is good but I was look for more. Maybe I'll after all have to sit and write my own. Because this is very straight forward. I want something sweet and juicy. Lol

amanda 2011-02-11

wedding vows

Well these r nice but I want something a little longer I wanna get lost in the moment

ashley 2011-02-04

great

when i get marride i plan to us these vows.

Felicia 2010-11-24

GOOD

I THINK ITS THE BEST

ALEX 2010-11-15

Great Vows

Great Vows =) Short & Simple but so precious.

Melissa 2010-10-03

JustBeautiful

I am too young to get married, But this is so sweet and beautiful, I just had to comment on it! I love it.

YoungOne 2010-08-19

im getting married at last

well im getting married in october and im so excited to be home shopping and everything starting new.. i dont have any kids i never been married...

shandreca 2010-07-24

great

short and sweet its very good

Sophie 2010-06-21

Perfect

Perfect, making your promise to God, to your party in front of your witnesses. Short to the the point, loving and what it is all about!!!

Lisa 2010-04-28

looking for ideas

im getting married in may an im looking for ideas

mary 2010-01-03

sweet

dude we just got two kids married at school with this!!!!

Sauce 2009-11-11

nice

I am looking at vows cause i am getting married to a wonderful guy when he gets back home from overseas.

stephanie 2009-10-19

coolio

short easy to remember lol ;)

CCCC 2009-09-30

Wonderful.

Getting Married To My Fiance Nathan In June Of 2010!=)

Ashely 2009-08-03

LOVING HER LIKE NO OTHER

OUR WEDDING VOWS ARE VERY IMPORTANT TO US AND WE ARE SPENDING A GREAT DEAL OF TIME GETTING THIS PERFECT.

ERIK KRISTINA 2009-07-26

ideas

Im gettin married soon and I was wondering wuts betta a traditional wedding or an original wedding?

meeshi 2009-06-26

to the Wedsite

Please so not post comments that contain swear words. We are dealing with sacred things here.

David Kasbow 2009-06-22

wedding

it's a great vow to get married to

deandra 2009-06-18

Marriage viws

Always Hang in there. Married 45 years to the most beautiful and sweetest wife a man could ever dream to have.

Jimmy
Raleigh, NC

Jimmy 2009-06-13

wonderful

i think these are amazing vows i think they are everything that should and need to be said!!

Emily 2009-05-30

Needing Help

I'm getting married in a week and i have no earthly clue what vows i want to do please help!!!!

Ashley Barnhill 2009-05-06

not very good

I've never been to a wedding (and I'm Baptist) with these vows. Not sure why they would be titled "BAPTIST wedding vows".

jessica 2009-04-19

Love

These vows were short and sweet, and married us and forever we will be truthful.

-Herbert & Josalin

Herbert 2009-03-28

putting a ring on it 07-07-04

I'm putting my husband's new band back on his finger.

Alaina 2009-03-20

To Michele

May 8th 2010? its my birthday! Congrats too!

Madison 2009-03-12

hiya

hello whats up me and my mates are planning a wedding for my mate we need some good vows! Please help plz!!!

anoyomous bitch 2009-02-28

sweet

This is short and sweet. It gives people looking to get married great ideas for their vows.

Symone 2009-02-16

Ideas

I am getting married in august and i am looking for some ideas.

Eryn 2009-01-20

who changed the vows

WHAT HAPPENED TO OBEY HONOR AND CHERISH?

FAITHFUL CHRISTIAN 2009-01-14

i think its perfect

hopefully i will be sayin them sone

ms jackilyn h 2008-11-10

brill

i am also getting married in may

jimmy 2008-09-09

prefect

I'm going to get married n this are prefect vows they are sweet but very true

lidia 2008-09-07

faithful and true

may you keep your promises and them also

john 2008-08-16

Family Tradition

These are the vows that I exchanged with the love of my life 40 years ago and these are the vows that I will lead my daughter and her husband in. There is continuity in this changeable world!

Tom Willson 2008-05-30

Honor and Obey as bible says

Changing traditional vows is probably reason for so many bad marriages.

Keith 2008-05-12

Like it

Yeah, I like this one. Traditonal! Cant go wrong really. Although its not very personal so could add stuff I guess!

Hayley 2008-04-16

marriage

marraige is great i have been for 27 years and it has made us stronger and we both walk close to God and we never go to bed mad at each other and we never leave home with out telling each other that we love them and when we talk on the phone to each other we end with telling I Love you we do this because we do love each other and you just never know when the last day will be..marraige is work but worth it

carol 2008-04-12

perfect

Iam getting married in May and these are perfect!

gina 2008-04-10

thanx

i love this im takin it

marium 2008-03-26

i thought it was great

its great i like it

jenny 2008-03-05

Simple yet profound

This is a simle vow yet so expressive of ones love, not lust.

Ian Joshua 2008-02-13

lets get marry

what happened to for better for worst for richer and poorer to love and to cherish till death do us part.

lil spicy 2008-02-11

lalala

this one is too confusing!

Lucy 2008-02-04

I AM GETTING MARRIED

I am going to be getting married on May the 8th 2010 and I was just looking for some ideas as to how I am going to word my wedding vows! This site was very informative! Thank You!

Michele 2008-01-31

Congrats

I have just gotten marrieed Jan.26, went to Justice of the Peace had only family and close, close, close friends there. We then went to a great restuarant and celebrated. Nice, sweet, and did not spend a lot of money at all. It was a wonderful day, I would do it again and would not change a thing.

Mia 2008-01-27

VERY NICE

Very informative......

Rey 2008-01-22

great

I am getting to someone and i was just looking for ideas

Sensas 2008-01-16

i love it

straight from the bible how its supposed to be

julissa 2007-10-16

Hellll no

You should want it to be long because these words are the words that combine you as one for the rest of your life...Apparently if you say these ..you want it to be over... I would never...Thats an insult...Thats a wam bam thank ya mam kind of vows...Holy Shit...In all my life I have never seen anything like it...

Kristen 2007-09-27

im in love

I'm 18. and is engaged to a 19 yr old. I really don't know what i want, I do want him though.

Danie 2007-08-03

To put in photo album

These are wonderful wedding vows, Thank You for the site it was very helpful!!

Tina Duff 2007-07-30

In Love...

I thought it was very romantic, and somewhat sweet. When getting married, one should mean all of those things said in the Baptist Wedding Vows.

Sierra McCoy 2007-06-27

Met 23 years ago july 4th

Want to help him remember!Forever!~~~

Lynn 2007-06-25

HELL YEAH

I AM GETTING MARRIED AND THAT IS JUST WHAT I WUZ LOOKIN 4 . THANKS A LOT

BRITTNEY 2007-05-03

Getting married

YEY! I'm so happy to be marrying the man I love on April 28 2007

lyndsay 2007-04-09

Love it

I love this because,it's short and very sweet,also romantic in a way.

Lyndsay 2007-04-09

Beautiful

Being a Baptisy myself, I mus admit that I am partial to these particular wedding vows. I think they are simple, yet very meaningful, and I anticipate repeating those precious words when I stand at the altar.

Sarah 2007-04-06

will out last the test of time

this vow is a strong and wonderful vow that will certanly out last the test of time

Wendy 2007-03-07

LOOKING FOR IDEAS

IM GETTING MARRIED IN MAY AN IM LOOKING FOR IDEAS

TAMMY 2007-02-15

great

this is great short and sweet

Melissa 2005-09-14